Profound act of forgiveness


Here is a poignant and inspiring story of forgiveness from the perspective of a wife, as depicted in the narrative from Wattpad:

The Story of Forgiveness


In a marriage marred by infidelity and constant arguments, a wife found herself at a critical juncture where she had to choose between holding onto anger and embracing forgiveness.The wife, who had been deeply hurt by her husband's affair and the subsequent emotional distance, woke up one morning to a moment of clarity. 

She saw her husband preparing breakfast, a rare gesture, and noticed the effort he was putting into their daily routine. However, it was not this small act of kindness that changed her; it was her own reflection and connection with her faith.

She realized that she had given her husband too much power over her emotions and well-being. She understood that her relationship with God was more important than her marriage and that she should not let her husband's actions define her."I asked myself, what is the most important relationship in my life? 

The one I have with you or the one with God? And I realized it is the one with God. I live for God, not for you. Marrying you was a blessing but it is not all there is in life. God has blessed me with life and I will not waste it crying because of the hurt you cause me to feel," she said, addressing her husband firmly but calmly.

Despite the pain and betrayal, she chose not to hate him. Instead, she decided to forgive and move forward, ensuring that their children would not suffer from the marital issues."I am angry and disappointed, but I have taken my power back. I live for God who has exceedingly blessed me, not for you and the pain you cause," she stated, her voice filled with a mix of sadness and resolve.She explained that she had been acting out of hurt and anger, but she realized that this behavior was not in line with her faith. 

She decided to focus on her relationship with God and to maintain her peace and joy despite the challenges in her marriage."When you hurt me and disrespected me, I realized I was acting out like a woman who has no God. I got mad and hurled insults, I wanted to revenge and I allowed you to mess me day after day. My performance at work went down, I talked less to our children, I became bitter to the children, I felt sorry for myself, I developed ulcers. 

And then I realized, I have God, I shouldn't act like someone with no relationship with God. Why should I be hopeless yet God is with me?" she said, her determination clear.


She made it clear that she would not let his actions ruin her joy, peace, and progress. She decided to leave the house, not out of anger but to maintain her peace and ensure the children's well-being."I came into this house in peace and I will leave in peace. 

You will not kill my smile and shine," she said, her resolve unwavering.Her husband, moved by her words and the peace she had found, begged for her forgiveness and promised to change. 

He acknowledged that he had failed her and expressed his desire to be the kind of husband she deserved."Please don't go, don't move out. I will hurt you no more, I will cheat no more. I am not OK. I want the peace you have. I want to be the kind of husband you are as a wife," he pleaded.

This story highlights a profound act of forgiveness, not for the sake of the husband, but for the wife's own healing and spiritual growth. It shows that forgiveness can be a powerful act of self-love and empowerment, allowing individuals to move forward with peace and dignity despite the pain they have endured.

Note: Readers can send their real stories of forgiveness to ujjwal.sarkar@gmail.com for posting on my blog.


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